Wednesday, January 16, 2008

When your friend comes to you crying, and you can't do anything but listen to her problems and tell her it's all gonna be okay, THAT is the most hurtful thing in the world.

If only i could kill him for you (but that'll make you sadder so um yea, i don't know about that). I'm sorry because all i can do is listen to you. I wanna talk to him but it's really not my place to do that. I'm sorry cause i'm bad at giving advice. I'm sorry cause i don't know what to do to make you feel better.

I know you're really hurt, but maybe it's best for you to just not be with him. I just think that if he's hurting you THIS much, he doesn't deserve you.

I can tell that you really love him. Those things that you're willing to do, i just think it's too much. I didn't tell you this, but i've been through what you're going through now. You love him to the point that there's nothing left for yourself, you're willing to change things about yourself just to make it work again. It's too much. Like i told you, even if you did those things, but he didn't even put any effort to make it work again, you're still gonna end up being hurt.

Dealing with this kind of thing takes a toll on people. It's tiring. I don't think you should be going through this. You don't deserve someone like him. I wanna tell you to just let him go, but i can't.

Take this as a positive thing. I know you're a strong person and you WILL get through this. It takes time, yes, but we're here for you. We'll help you get through it. Think of the good things that this will bring. There's alot of guys out there that will NOT do this to you.

It hurts me that i can't do anything to alleviate your pain. But i'll always be here for you, just remember that.

Sidenote: I cannot believe you said it's over.

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I'm sorry for looking over the things that you were doing and looking at things you weren't doing. I know i'm stupid. I also didn't know you felt that way. I wish you told me.

This just made me realize that you really are something i do NOT EVER wanna lose. I'll do my best to make this work. Even if you don't believe me, you are DEFINITELY THE ONE. I love you. :)